Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Random encounter with the homeless

Jesus Loves You

Image by mojoey via Flickr

I was approached by a homeless man yesterday. I was in the parking lot of Tommy's in Westminster taking a phone call because my Bluetooth earpiece was dead.  I've already been pulled over twice for talking on my cell phone with out the damn thing. I'm not going to press my luck any further. Anyway... I was deep in conversation with a friend when somebody knocked on my window. It was a homeless man.

My hearth skipped a beat when he knocked. I put up a finger to tell him I was busy. He waited. A few minutes later I asked him what he wanted while knowing it was going to be cash. He asked for food instead. He said he was hungry. I offered to buy him something from Tommy's. He agreed.

I figured that guy would go for a large meal when I told him to order whatever he wanted from the menu. He surprised me by ordering a small coffee and a breakfast muffin with egg and chili. I ordered a diet coke. The food at Tommy's is epic, but it kills me to eat it.

I sat with him while he ate his meal. The interesting part of this story happened next. He asked me if I was going to talk to him about Jesus. I asked why he thought I would do that. His response bothered me.

The only time people buy me food and eat with me is when they want to save my soul. You know, Jesus love you...

I promptly replied that I did not give a damn about his soul. I told him I was an Atheist and felt that it was my moral responsibility to help people when they are in need. I don't give cash, but I will buy food.  He did not respond with words. He just smiled and finished his coffee.

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That's a truly great story. Puts paid to all those criticisms that atheists can't ever hope to take the moral high ground. Now if I could just bring myself to get rid of my immigrant brothel, sweat shop staffed by Cambodian children, and non-Fair Trade coffee plantation, I could get a piece of that action too!
Both a great reminder that atheists aren't some immoral pack of heathens and that many of the homeless are those in desperate situations that have no choice but to rely on the generosity of others at least temporarily. Not to mention being a very touching story.
You're a greater man than I. I only give money to panhandlers.
Hee hee...the guy was probably a fundie before he ran out of dough to put in the collection plate. When you told him you were an atheist, I'll bet he filed it away under "Yeah, just another religious fanatic..."
:)
I don't like giving money to panhandlers...I'm sorry to say I always assume they'll spend it on booze or drugs. I wish there were more homeless people who would ask for food instead. I've never experienced it. But if I did, I'd be more than happy to do as they asked.
You are a good man Mojoey.
I've considered doing that myself but always wind up chickening out. You're a good role model for us. Good job.
Thanks everyone. I met a homeless man once who said when people really care, they give their time. That was 20 years ago, but I've taken it to heart. When they ask for money, I will often ask, are you hungry? They normally say no.
Makes me proud to "know" you! :-)

Carolyn Ann
A really interesting story, read it by mere coincidence on my web surfing.
It reminds me of the few people who knows the money is but a mere exchange standard and the fact that our current wold is indeed alienated.
You did the right thing, i don't normally comment on anything i read, but the story was indeed memorable.
It's so much easier to make an excuse or to throw money at someone. I admire you for going further. I try to do these things, but more often than not, I fail.
You are awesome. <3

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