The measure of a person is in what they do. You may be a pastor. You may have a heartfelt and tragic personal story. You may even run your own church. But when you treat people like shit, the battle is lost. You are a bad person and you failed in your mission. We see the God you claim to represent in your actions. And honestly, your God is unattractive.
Self appointed pastor Alois Bell is a bad person. If you don't believe me, read her story.