Friday, August 28, 2009

A crisp new dollar

I loaned a neighbor $26 a few weeks ago. I never expected to see it returned. The man lives in a garage across the street and down a few houses. He walks his dog, drinks a lot of beer, and in general, does as little as possible. I like him. He’s friendly, and will go out of his way to help others if he sees the opportunity. He is an alcoholic, and as far as I can tell, unrepentant about it.

When he knocked on my door to ask for a loan, he said  he needed cash to get across town to visit a free clinic. I gave him everything in my wallet after initially saying no. He pleaded with me, which was out of character. He was having trouble with his eyes, it was important that he see a doctor. $26 did not seem like a lot of money to me, but it meant a lot to him. He promised to repay me despite my assurance there was no need. I did not expect to see the money. I was surprised by what happened next.

About a week after the loan he flagged me down as I returned from work. He put three crisp new dollar bills in my hand and said there was more to come. He repeated this every time he saw me over the next few weeks. Sometimes it was a single dollar, at other times two or three. The dollars bills were always crisp and new.

Yesterday he stopped me in my driveway. He put new six one dollar bills in my hand as a final payment. I thanked him and told him if he ever needed help again, that he should ask. He said something then that made me smile. I’m going to paraphrase it here. I can’t actually write the way the guy talks.

I was praying for the money. You helped me see a doctor and he gave me glasses so I can read the bible again. I was praying and reading and trying to find a way to put together the money to pay you back when I read a passage about tithing. So I tried to set aside 10% of everything I earned for you. Since I don’t have a job, doing that was hard, so it occurred to me that I should find some work instead of just praying for money.  I’ve been doing day labor for cash. I trim bushes (he points to a bush).

I’ve never actually seen this guy do anything before. Day or night, he’s in front of his house with a beer in his hand. Apparently, his desire to repay a loan overcame his desire to drink. I was touched and reminded that good people come in all shapes and sizes and can even be alcoholic bums. My natural skepticism keeps me from trusting the motives of people on first blush. Occasionally people do things that just blow me away and make me feel good about being part of the human race.

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Thanks for this. It's hard sometimes when confronted with people asking for money, especially when it's obvious they've got a drinking problem, and even more so when they start asking god to bless you. Good deeds for good deeds' sake can have unexpected (and beneficial) results. It's nice to be reminded of this.
This is certainly just what you needed to help remove that gray funk you said you were in. A drunk with a conscious and integrity!! Who'da
thunk it? Now I know that you wouldn't attribute this type of strange event to God, because you don't want to, but for we people who believe in Jesus Christ as Son of God, we thank God for just this type of event because we know that He blesses us in small ways and in large ways. Immature Christians believe that God's blessings are mainly monetary and material: a mature Christian knows that these small gifts are truly His greatest blessings!! We Christians come to expect these types of gifts and are grateful for them. We know that evil exists in the world and it's painful to watch and none are immune, not even Christians, no matter what some may say, but we trust God that He's in control and will protect us if we obey Him. Not because He's a megalomaniac, He's not deluded, He IS Omnipotent!! I hope that you're feeling a lot lighter in spirit and soul. :-)
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I don't know that most who are opposed to health care are Christians, but if so, its fear and selfishness. I know that the media is this way or that. For those who trust God its not odd to see Him use a "drunkard" to encourage others because God looks at the heart. The guy truly wanted to prove his integrity, and it encouraged Mr Mojoey. You are blessed to be a blessing to your person by giving her money that she can't repay. Thanks for doing it. The fact that people are selfish does not negate the goodness of Jesus! He's infinitely far above us humans, yet is compassionate and kind and forgiving IF we repent & turn to Him! Blessings
9 replies · active 810 weeks ago
Anna,

"We Christians come to expect these types of gifts and are grateful for them." That’s cool, a bit conditional, but cool. Is it safe to assume that you get a little pissed when God fails to deliver an expected gift? Does it tick you off a bit, when an Atheist or Muslim gets the promotion you deserve or has ten healthy kids and yours has cystic fibrosis? (Just examples, I hope you are healthy and wealthy in all sense of the words)

Why does everything have to be blessings, teachings and gifts? What about free will and personal judgment? What about personal ownership for your actions? Surrendering all of these to God's will is such a cheap cop out. Are Christian really just automatons?

Lastly, you would think that your Omnipotent master would find it in his charitable heart to cure this schmuck of his alcohol addiction, instead of blessing him with the ability to scrounge up 26 bucks.

Anoat
I don't know all, but God does. He and his gifts belongs to all people, including atheists & muslims, IF they repent and choose Him. He's not an enabler so we have to be responsible for our choices. He's given us free will which is hard to manage without Him.

We are like automatons, squandering our free will on stupid things. Like alcohol, or excess in anything. But God is merciful and redeems. Mr. Schmuck got the chance to prove his integrity with $26.

He chose excess alcohol so he reaps alcoholism. Still he has integrity, which many "high ranking" men don't. And all of these things are His blessings and teachings and gifts!
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littlejohn · 810 weeks ago

@Anna: You seem very nice and I don't want to jump on you here on an atheist blog. But I noticed you grouped Muslims with atheists. Don't Muslims believe in the same god of Abraham worshiped by Jews and Christians? How do you think Muslims would view your comment? Not trying to argue, just wondering.
And if your god is kind, why did he make this unfortunate man (assuming this story isn't made up) poverty-stricken and alcohol-addicted? Why not prevent, or at least cure, his underlying difficulties?
Of course, as I suggested above, this story sounds suspiciously like one of those heart-warming frauds one reads in the Reader's Digest and other mass-market pablum.
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Wow. So very cool. Thanks for sharing that.
Great story which illuminates the grounds of obligation (at least as a feeling) in the experience of gratitude.
That was cute : )

I really don't see how people can contribute this to god. The man wanted to pay you back BEFORE reading the bible, he just got a little help from it in how to do so. Which isn't a bad thing. Like any other piece of literature, there is stuff we can learn from the Bible, so like any other piece of literature, it should be read and understood.

And also like any other piece of literature, it should NOT be worshipped as the word of a god-like being. (for various reasons)
You did the right thing.
It is a nice story. It even sounds like fiction to me! That man is an interesting character. Thanks for sharing it.
Thanks, Capt! I was not lumping, but listing. Only two in the list because we must be brief in our posts, Ive learned.
Mr. Mojoey, I want to thank you for letting me post in your blog! I like the idea that you're exposing those who are unrepentant so-called Christians. Hiding behind Christianity to do all kinds of wicked things.
There is hope for these people, IF they repent (turn from sinning as a lifestyle). It's people like these that can chip away at our faith in humanity if we allow them.
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Some salient points a couple commenters seem to have missed.

1) The guy didn't start reading his bible after he got glasses. He had the bible before and presumably had been reading it until his progressively worsening eye condition made that impossible.

2) Nothing in the post suggests the man gave up drinking, or in other words, stopped sinning. He was a drunkard before and remains a drunkard.

3) This one is most important. The guy realized that actual work was more effective than prayer at obtaining a desired outcome: gaining the ability to repay a loan.
So many people think that prayer is a substitute for action. Prayer is communication with God to show you believe and trust Him. He expects you do take action and He can facilitate your action. He's the supernatural ability on our natural ability. For example: You need a job. You pray to God to help you with getting a job. Now, dont stop and sit on your porch waiting for a job. Get up and start searching. Then God comes in: You have favor shown to you by the interviewer. She likes you for some reason and wants to hire YOU even though your resume wasnt up to par. Or, (various scenarios that work in YOUR favor)!
2 replies · active 810 weeks ago
Thanks, Mojoey, for sharing this story. Despite all the different groups trying claim a monopoly on truth, there still seems to be a connection between we humans and the world we live in. Thanks for demonstrating that.
Sometimes we forget that addiction can happen to anybody, sometimes even the nicest people you could want to meet.
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Phil E. Drifter · 810 weeks ago

Usually when strangers try to talk to me, i'm wearing my earbuds (as I am 80% deaf due to ototoxic drugs given to me when I was hospitalized; thanks war on [some] drugs) i tell them to fuck off. If they still try to talk to me I tell them i will no longer be responding with words but with fists. They leave me alone after that.
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Phil E. Drifter · 810 weeks ago

Anna Renee: So many people think that prayer is a substitute for action. Prayer is communication with God to show you believe and trust Him. yourself because you've been brainwashed since birth by people who cannot accept ugly fact so they create pleasant lies.
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Phil E. Drifter · 810 weeks ago

Give a man a fish and feed him for a day.
Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime.
Give a man religion and he'll die praying for a fish.
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