I posted on Pastor Bill Wininger, who stands accused of molesting a child or perhaps several children, back in the 90s. He wrote a book back in 1995 called, A Church Falsely Accused, It is a first person account of how the author and his church survived allegations of child sexual abuse that took place in 1992. The allegations arose from the bus ministry, where a bus driver was alleged to have given a child a special hug. I read the book yesterday in an about an hour.
A Church Falsely Accused by Pastor Bill Wininger
Copyright 1995, Revival Fires Publishers
Hardback, 166pp. $11.99
The book is an easy read. I think in part because it is a full-sized hardback with reduced-sized pages. Instead of a standard margin, each page has doublewide margins. It could have been written in 80 pages. There are 14 chapters, each of which is similar to the other, except for the chapter titled, May I offers Some Suggestions, which goes into specific recommendations to help other churches protect against allegations of abuse.
The author describes, in very general terms, an allegation of abuse lodged against a bus driver and a deacon. There is very little information on the actual accusations besides trivializing the accusations as coming from a child who had been hugged by the bus driver and pointing out that the child lived in a trailer park and was young. Instead, the author goes into what it is like to lead a church when the press is reporting on the alleged crimes and the community hates you. I read the book as a list of grievances, punctuated with bible verses and short sermons. Pastor Wininger stood by the accused and believed their stories without reservation. There was no mention of the alleged victims.
This was a story of outsiders (kids in the bus ministry) versus an established church which circled its wagons to survived and support the accused. Those accused were eventually found not guilty or had the charges dropped, so all of the support the church offered reads as the correct and godly thing to do. Plus, Wininger makes the story personal and talks about what it is like to be a leader besieged by outsiders and how he cared for the accused. I would subtitle the book, a whiners tale.
The chapter that makes recommendations was interesting in that I disagreed with each recommendation.
Recommendations:
1. Maintain a good records system: Since the church is focused on its bus ministry, it keeps detailed records for each child it picks up. The used a form in triplicate that captures data to show how many children are saved for Jesus. They used the data to disprove accusations by showing which dates children rode the bus and who was the bus driver. I understand why they do this. It a numbers game. They judge their success by the number of children that hear the word of god or are saved. Unfortunately, this protects the church from accusations, while it does nothing for the kids. The recommendation is worthless. If you must prey on poor children to boost your church numbers, then at least have a driver and a second adult. Use the two adult rule. No child should ever be left alone with an adult while at church or in route.
2. Educate your workers: The thinking here was that an overactive or disruptive child was the root of the problem. At least in this recommendation that actually state a worker should never be alone with a child, but as we know now, preventing child abuse actually relays upon supervision of adults and not unruly children.
3. Know What's Going On: This church actually has roaming bands of adults who make sure kids are in Sunday School classes and not paying in the yard. The message here is direct. Children need to learn about Christ. Instead of sweeping the grounds, these adults should be doing random audits of adults in the bible classes. The abuse happens when an adult is allowed to be alone with a child. Safeguards should be focused in this area and not in making sure kids are placed in risky classrooms.
4. Get Good Legal Counsel: Seriously? This protects kids how?
5. Deal Wisely with Authorities: The backstory here is the church feels it was abused by the police even though they did police appreciation events. Dealing wisely with authorities is an area I care about because it is the one that is abused the most. Christians use police inquiries to justify the "Christian under attack by Satan" justification for protecting accused pastors. I see it in store after story. Christians should cooperate fully with investigations into allegations of child abuse. There is no other story.
6. Have good insurance coverage: Really? This protects kids how?
The reader will notice that the church does not actually do anything to protect children from adults. Instead, the book is about protecting the church from accusations, which is wrongheaded. The book is also about a church and a pastor being victimized by accusations of abuse, and frankly, it is self-serving and used to justify a ministry process that preys on underprivileged children. I find the concept reprehensible and the book foolish.
thewayforwardblog2 42p · 596 weeks ago
As I have made clear in my writing about Bill Wininger, churches need to quit "managing" allegations of abuse. Any allegation of abuse should be reported immediately. Too many churches are more concerned about their reputation than they are the person who was abused.
Lawyers are part of the problem. People like David Gibbs are called on to manage abuse allegations. Churches are told to say nothing publicly. This is why, in the Wininger case, the two churches involved have made no public statement. This makes them look like they have something to hide.
I appreciate your blog. The more writers that expose the "sins" and crimes of abusers and predators, the safer children will be. I think, like with the Catholic Church, Evangelicals have their own secrets, their own coverups. These things must be exposed. Parents should not trust a church or a pastor without there being justification for doing so. As we now know, from stories like the Bob Gray abuse story, a sexual predator can pastor a large church, hide in plain sight, and do vile things for decades.
Caleb Reece · 593 weeks ago
On your statements about buses, it completely depends on the church. There are plenty of churches that care more about numbers than anything else, but not all churches are like that. Our buses run for the sole purpose of helping the kids, not having big days. And yes, our main goal is to get them saved. Duh, that's our job. However, all churches should have safeguards to protect the children. For instance, at my church, under no circumstances are a male and a female (who aren't married) allowed in a room together alone. Ever. Every church should have extremely clear guidelines for all child workers. Any allegations should be dealt with immediately. This protects the kids, as well as the workers.
Caleb Reece · 593 weeks ago
Bruce Gerencser · 593 weeks ago
I don't know of a bus ministry anywhere that puts the temporal needs of the kids first. You admitted as much when you said it is about getting the kids saved. Again, I am quite familiar with what goes on in the IFB church movement. I am sure there are some outliers that are different, but, in the main, IFB churches are cultic and do great emotional/mental harm to countless people. I would NEVER recommend a person attend a IFB church.
Caleb Reece · 592 weeks ago
thewayforwardblog2 42p · 592 weeks ago
I am going to play the old man, I know more than you card. I don't like to do this but you are a young guy, right? I was in in the IFB/Evangelical church for 50 years. I pastored IFB/Evangelical churches for 25 years. I know what I know. My wife's father is a retired IFB pastor, her uncle is a noted IFB pastor, and she has three cousins that are either a pastor, missionary, and an evangelist or married to them. So, while I may not be an IFB pastor any longer, I am still in close contact with the IFB church movement, be it through family or through people contacting me on my blog.
I have said all this to say, we need to have this discussion again in 20 or 30 years. Let's wait until you have fully seen the ugly underbelly of the IFB church movement; it's lies, deceits, cover-ups, and scandals. These are not rare stories but quite common...you just don't know about them.
I know you are not going to hear a word I am saying so I won't waste any more of my time. You think David Gibbs is a wonderful man of transparency. I know better. I am not saying he is dishonest or anything like that. I am saying he is a good lawyer that puts the needs of his clients first. To do otherwise would be malpractice. Jesus does not come first...the church he represents does. (and don't confuse the two) If you doubt this...find out how many VICTIMS of sexual abuse Gibbs has represented over the years. Get a list of the IFB churches and pastors he has gone after over sexual abuse. Then, let's talk.
You can reach me on my blog if you are interested in talking further.
Bruce Gerencser
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